Do you dream of being in a good relationship? Do you want more closeness and connection with your partner? Would you be willing to take the simple steps necessary to make this dream a reality? 
Simple Steps you can begin on your own right now:

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Turn off your smartphone

If you’re glued to Facebook during dinner, then it’s time to unplug. A study published in Computers in Human Behavior looked at data from 1,160 married people and found a negative correlation between heavy social-media use and relationship happiness. “When angry, some people may turn to texting to avoid saying something,” Saltz says. “It’s a way of creating distance.” While it doesn’t hurt to send a flirty or loving message, it does pay off to be more direct with your partner when something is really eating at you.

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SMILE
People who smile more tend to be more positive and emotionally stable which makes way to healthier relationships. So, brighten up your partner’s life and your relationship with your smile.
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Seek to understand before trying to be understood.

One of the most common negative patterns I see in my work with couples is the cycle of criticism and defensiveness. This often happens when you hear something you perceive as an attack or criticism from your partner, which leads you immediately to defend yourself.

This pattern sets both of you up not to be heard. As soon as you start to defend your position, you’ve lost the opportunity to understand your partner. Even if you feel under attack or think you hear a criticism, try to understand your partner’s thoughts and feelings before you respond.
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Find common goals

A study conducted in collaboration with a dating site in the UK found that 13% of couples reported no longer having the same goals. This situation represents a ticking time bomb, as research has shown that couples who share dreams and goals have longer-lasting, more satisfying relationships. If you feel like you’ve been out of sync lately with your partner on this front, discuss your philosophy of life together. The aim is for both of you to share what you want your life to be about, where you want to end up and what these things mean to you. Look for anything that’s common between the two of you and talk about ways to work

 

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20 Signs He's in Love With You - 5
Give Each Other The Benefit of The Doubt
This ranks high on the list, yet it’s often easier said than done. The reason I say this is because our families often get the worst of us; to completely take from MTV, we really do stop being polite and start getting real. However, something as simple as giving your spouse or partner the benefit of the doubt can make an extraordinary difference.
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12 Habits of a Happy relationship - 2
Put yourself in their shoes
Upset? Focus on the positives when things are feeling a little negative. Try to understand your partner’s subjective experience. You might be a couple, but you each feel things differently and
that’s OK.

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20 Signs He's in Love With You - 1
Listen

It might sound obvious, but when you really allow yourself to listen—and ask questions about—what your partner says, it not only leads to better conversations, but also better communication.

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Express love

Be open-minded and non-judgmental. Extend love to yourself and to others. Choose to be loving whenever possible — it is always possible.

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