Most Amazingly Terrific Tips To Melt Your Guy’s Heart
Go Mush-Mush Over Your Guy
Pick any romantic book, Mills and Boons if you like, turn the pages and you will come across numerous ways a guy tries to woo the girl. If not that, then the guy will be going out of his way to please his girl. If not that, he will at least be going home brandishing a colourful bouquet for her girl. See a pattern here? It’s always the guy who is wooing and treating the girl to flowers and gifts. Rather unfair, one would say. Why the guys should always be left to expect to woo the girl, why can’t it be the other way round!
For ages, we have stresses on the fact that a relationship is between equals, meaning that both the persons are, or should be, equally invested. Then why not can a guy be spoilt silly, why not make his day with some fresh flowers, or playing a game perhaps.
Girls, make a promise – you will go out of your way to melt your guy’s heart, and trust me, it will do you a world of good.
1.Take it to the fireplace
Lazing around is good. Lazing around in front of the fireplace is amazing. Reading is enriching. Reading in front of the fireplace is romantic! A fireplace adds a distinct charm to the atmosphere, and you can use it to your benefit. Plan a romantic, intimate, candle-lit dinner by the fireplace. Want to make it better, cook yourself. Enjoy a slow three course meal with some light, warn soup. Followed by some scrumptious pasta (what’s more romantic than pasta!) and finish it off with the ooh-la-la molten lava cake. Perfecto!
2.Shower him with praises
How do you feel when you beau praises for the shade of lipstick you are wearing? It shows that he notices, and pays attention to you. Great! Now it’s time to return the favour. Compliment him for the colour of his shirt, his style of shoes, on how he styles his hair, or just for the way he makes you feel. Say out loud that you notice the minutest detail about him, and how happy it makes you to call him yours. Bring out the best in him and see him smile in utter glee.
3.Dress up for him
No matter how much ever people say that it the personality that matters, it is the beauty inside that’s what’s important, truth be told – we love things that are visually attractive. Yes, your guy loves you unconditionally. He calls you the same loving names even when you are dressed in your shabbiest PJs, but that doesn’t mean he won’t appreciate when you are dresses and dolled-up. Surprise him by dressing up and greeting him with a kiss when he comes home from work. Wear his favourite shade of lipstick, or indulge in some professionally done eye make-up. Your guy is sure to skip a heart beat.
4.Be his masseuse
Your guy works hard. Long hours at the office, away from you, probably working through sheets and sheets of data – tiring, right? Transform yourself into a masseuse and massage all the tension away. Use the best aromatic oil, play some soft music and light a dozen or so candles all over the room. Let your guy sit back, relax. Hand him a glass of his favorite fruit drinks, and give him the most amazing foot massage ever. Maybe, after he has relaxed enough, he might return the favour and give you a foot massage too! Here’s a tip – keep some finger food and snacks handy.
5.Play a video game
Your boyfriend/ husband endured through the season after season of F.R.I.E.N.D.S. and then its reruns too. He sat through all the Sex and the City and How I Met Your Mother. He even watched all the chic-flicks just to keep you company. So would it be too much to ask you to sit down and have a serious session of his favourite video games! Chances are, you might find a hidden talent and kick him out at a marathon of wii games! No matter how violent and gory his favourite game might be, he has earned it through all the rom-coms he has suffered through.
There, ladies, are the most amazingly terrific tips to melt your guy’s heart. Use them, be creative and give it a touch of your own – and you never know, you might be treated with equal surprises, or maybe your guy might want to up the ante. Write love notes, hug and kiss him when he least expects so, shower him with gifts ‘just because you like to’, cook him his favourite dinner or take him out on a date. Whatever you do, make sure that he knows he is being pampered. And that you feel he is special. Who knows he might have a surprise up his sleeve for you too!