“If Your Man Does These Things
He’s Madly In Love With You”
Love is a wonderful and amazing feeling. Falling in love is one of the most exciting and rewarding experiences on this planet, but it can also be the scariest. There is always that fear of rejection. It’s hard enough to know when you love your man, but what about him? Guys can be very hard to read.
I know they say that women are impossible to figure out, but men are just as bad. Most times, they keep their feelings very well hidden. If you have that guy who wears his heart on his sleeve, then you probably know by now where he is at in your relationship.
If your man is a little less obvious, then you may need a little help.
Here are 12 signs and signals to watch for to see if your guy is ready to say those pivotal three words.
Start watching your man and look for these signals to see if your relationship is heading towards love.
1. He Is Constantly Gazing Into Your Eyes
When guys are not interested in someone their eyes tend to look away… a lot. Watch his gaze, and if you find his eyes lock in with yours constantly he may just be falling in love.
2. He Loves Forgiving You
If your guy can’t stay mad at you for more than a couple of hours, it’s love! People who genuinely love and care about each other can’t stay mad for too long without regretting it.
If he makes the first move to make up with you and apologizes even if he is not wrong, he truly cares about you.
3. He Is Always Happy To See You
He may be having the worst day in the world, but as soon as he sets eyes on you, his mood is instantly lifted. That’s how you know you are the light of his life.
4. He Throws Around The Word “We”
In general conversations, whether he is talking to you or anyone else, and you hear your main man throw out the word “we” instead of “I,” he means business! He likes the idea of you two together better than himself alone.
5. He’s Real With You
He lets you see a different side of himself, and he is not afraid to be real around you. Who can forget how cute goofy dancing Derek was when he was trying to cheer up Meredith? Total marriage goals!
6. He Enjoys Doing The Things You Like
Whether it’s a trip to the mall, or a relaxing day at the spa, if your man is right there beside you and enjoys accompanying you to some of your favorite activities, chances are it’s love.
7. He Loves Learning About You
If your conversations start to dive really deep and your boyfriend shows more of an interest on what’s inside rather than focusing on the surface, chances are he is in it for the long haul.
8. He Wants To Protect You
If he worries about you when you are not together, don’t be alarmed. This just means he genuinely cares about your well-being. He wants to protect you and make sure you are safe because… he loves you!
Don’t mistake jealousy for protection, though. A guy that will go and beat up every other guy who speaks to you… not so good, but a man that will defend you in front of his friends and do anything because you’re his girl… that’s a keeper!
9. He Surprises You For No Reason
It’s not always the grand gestures that matter, sometimes it’s the little things that count! If your man loves to surprise for no reason other than it being Tuesday, he is probably in love.
10. He Lives To Make You Laugh
Relationships shouldn’t be boring and stiff all the time! If you got a man who loves to make you laugh… Bingo! It’s probably love.
If Your Man Does These Things, He’s Madly In Love With You
11. He Enjoys Cuddling With You
Cuddling is definitely a sign that he may be in love with you. Girls aren’t the only ones who love to cuddle. If a man wants to hold you close to him and be near you there is more to your relationship than just a fondness.
12. He Loves You
Finally, when he admits that he loves you, that is when you know for sure that he does. When he finally tells you that he loves you (most of the time) it is a big deal for him. Most guys have a very difficult time expressing their feelings, keep that in mind.
Spotting signs of love isn’t always easy, but if you pay real close attention, you may be able to spot the exact moment he falls for you.
If you have a boyfriend who hasn’t admitted his love yet, just wait it out and look for these signs he loves you – who knows, maybe he is scared of rejection. If you spot any of these signs and you love him, don’t be afraid to be the first to say it! If he loves you, he probably will say it back!
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