Chivalry, though considered as an old school of thought, still hasn’t lost its significance. Even today, simple gestures of care and sincerity can have a deep impact on someone’s heart.
Though women’s empowerment has made them more independent, determined and self-sufficient, but women still long for a perfect gentleman who can go an extra mile for them.
Today, women are extra cautious about getting into relationships. They don’t want themselves to get hurt and fall prey of some insensitive and ruthless cheat.
But when women are cherished, loved, admired and taken care of, they submit themselves completely to the person behind this blissful experience. Even in today’s ‘practical world’, women instantly fall for a true gentleman. A person, with his chivalrous habits and sincere gestures, can melt a woman’s heart.
It doesn’t take much of an effort or display of any grand gesture or costly things to win a woman’s heart. By just adopting the following chivalry traits, you can win your girl over.
1. Holding The Door Open For Her
A woman’s heart will always melt for a true gentleman; a person who puts her comfort and well-being before his own. When you hold the door ajar open for her, it will make her heart melt. Women do recognise a person who takes care of people around him. So, whether you open the door for her or for other people around you, she will appreciate it and mark you as a true gentleman in her mind.
2. Surprise Her With Flowers
Flowers have been and will always be one of the biggest weaknesses of women. So if you really want to win a girl over, surprise her with flowers regularly. It’s not about the Valentine’s Day flowers, it’s the bouquet that you picked for her randomly from a supermarket or any grocery store while thinking about her. Such unexpected flowers will always make her heart smile.
3. Help Her With Her Coat Or Offer Your Jacket
It’s another gentleman’s trait to help a lady putting on her coat. Of course, women can put on a coat or jacket on their own, but it’s the thought and the gesture that counts.
Offer them your own jacket when it’s cold and see how her heart melts for you.
4. Spend Time With Her Family
Nothing melts her heart more than seeing you getting along well with her family. Women always cherish a guy who takes out the time to spend with her family. A true gentleman will willingly put in time with her girl’s parents and friends. This shows his true and sincere intentions towards the girl. Such guys are keepers and women fell for them instantly.
5. Guard Them With Your Presence And Your Body
Women will melt for a gentleman who is there to protect her and guard her from any possible harm. When you are with your girl, give her a feeling of protection; guard her while navigating through a crowd, shield her from wind or rain or protect her by walking on the outside of the side-walk. These little acts of care speak volumes and make you the ultimate gentleman.
6. Offer Food Or Drink From Your Share
To show you really care, try to offer her from your share of food. When you put her desires before your cravings, she will know you are the real gentleman she has always dreamt of.
7. Pick Her Up For A Date
Be a gentleman and pick her up for a date. And it’s not just to pick her up while sitting in your car and honking; walk up to her door and pick her from her door step. This proves your care and your respect for her. Your little gestures will melt her heart and she will be yours truly, madly, deeply.
8. Spend Time Doing What She Likes
Spend time with her doing what she really likes to do. It could be taking her out for shopping or watching a girly movie with her or watching her favourite TV show with her without complaining or asking for anything in return. This is a real act of chivalry, just spending time with her and letting her enjoy what she likes to do.
9. Be Respectful
A true gentleman is always respectful to others; be it a woman, an elderly, a colleague or a friend. Giving out respect to others regardless of their profession and financial status is a real act of chivalry which never goes unnoticed.